Monday, November 14, 2011

Postpartum Fatigue: Planet Birthin' Blues 'n' Bliss

Did the Earth move for you on 11-11-11? Did you feel replete, complete — and absolutely knackered on Saturday, November 12th? I sure did.

At first I attributed my extreme weariness to the bad fall I took Thursday night, which left me barely able to walk on 11/11/11. Talk about being forced to slow down! Then, as I began checking in with others, I realized this was a system-wide energy outage: the exhaustive exhaustion of assimilating a higher frequency, crossing the threshold, midwifing Earth in rebirth! Gaia herself has been cleansing in preparation for becoming a star; it rained on Friday where I dwell.

By sunny Sunday, the exuberance of the new was shining through. Saturday felt like the First Day; it continues to seem like a world washed clean. And yes, we've got a ways to journey; no child graduates a few days after exiting the womb!

The days ahead will not follow any script; one illuminating resource I'm in the midst of digesting (slowly!) is Finite and Infinite Games by James P. Carse, a penetrating inquiry into regarding life as play and possibility.

We're paving the new road as we walk it, or better yet, clearing a trail. In Bringers of the Dawn, The Pleiadians (channeled by Barbara Marciniak) called this experience "bushwhacking through consciousness". It's never been more literally true than now, as we enter the time that has been foretold for millennia: the Golden Age, the Age of Aquarius, the Fifth World, Home.

Wednesday, November 09, 2011

"I'll Have the Scrambled Communication On Toast…"

In The Restaurant at the End of the Universe (with apologies to Douglas Adams), Scrambled Communication might well be on the menu along with eggs over easy. Our personal filters are in overdrive as planetary energies accelerate past Warp 9, fueling glitches that are cosmically comic (and Mercury doesn't even go retrograde until Thanksgiving Day!).

This week alone, I've had two clients hear something very different from what I actually said, and two other people interpret my words with an exact opposite meaning. By the time I'd experienced the second such encounter I was beginning to pay attention; unless I'm suddenly speaking Choctaw, this isn't a language issue.

What's happening? We're in the midst of a dimensional merge, which can render once-ordinary communication quirky in ways that are sometimes humorous, sometimes hurtful, occasionally bizarre. Even when we think we're being abundantly clear — or that our meaning is blatantly obvious — it now pays to spell everything out very carefully, whether in person, by email, by phone or text message. Social media posts can also be misconstrued with greater ease now, not from intent, but from disparate frequency. Think of it as a global Doppler effect.

The answer, as always, is Love. Coming from a heartspace, there is no misinterpretation because everything sounds like yes, like being bathed in warmth, like nourishment. Unfortunately, except for the saintly among us, most of us still drop into and out of this high place, as we endeavor to dwell here. Yet we are forging heretofore-unimagined pathways of community and connection, from Occupy Global, which became a worldwide happening virtually overnight in October, to the imminent 11-11-11 ceremonies and celebrations slated for this Friday and weekend.

We're ushering in a new era, stepping into "a vision of life as play and possibility," as the subtitle of James P. Carse's seminal work, Finite and Infinite Games (which I'm now savoring, sentence by sentence) proposes. There is nothing to win, because there is nothing to lose. It's all theatre, a grand design of our minds, which are slowly surrendering to our hearts. We just need to keep reminding one another to order the Inspiration Salad, an all-inclusive meal that keeps us well fed forever — and Scrambled Communication may soon disappear from the menu for lack of interest.


Wednesday, November 02, 2011

The Forty Rules of Love

This beautiful and timely post is excerpted from The Forty Rules of Love: A Novel of Rumi by Elif Shafak. Thanks to Jean Hudon for the information!

Every true love and friendship is a story
of unexpected transformations

Rule 1
How we see God is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves.
If God brings to mind mostly fear and blame,
it means there is too much fear and blame welled inside us.
If we see God as full of love and compassion, so are we.

Rule 2
The path to the Truth is a labor of the heart, not of the head.
Make your heart your primary guide! Not your mind.
Meet, challenge, and ultimately prevail over your nafs (false ego) with your heart.
Knowing your ego (higher self/soul) will lead you to the knowledge of God.

Rule 3
Each and every reader comprehends the Holy Qur'an on a different level
in tandem with the depth of his understanding.
There are four levels of insight.
The first level is the outer meaning and it is the one that the majority of the people are content with.
Next is the Batini - the inner level.
Third, there is the inner of the inner.
And the fourth level is so deep it cannot be put into words,
and is therefore bound to remain indescribable.

Rule 4
You can study God through everything and everyone in the universe,
because God is not confined in a mosque, synagogue, or church.
But if you are still in need of knowing where exactly His abode is,
there is only one place to look for Him:
in the heart of a true lover.

Rule 5
Intellect and love are made of different materials.
Intellect ties people in knots and risks nothing,
but love dissolves all tangles and risks everything.
Intellect is always cautious and advises, 'Beware too much ecstasy,'
whereas love says, 'Oh, never mind!
Take the plunge!
Intellect does not easily break down,
whereas love can effortlessly reduce itself to rubble.
But treasures are hidden among ruins.
A broken heart hides treasures.

Rule 6
Most of the problems of the world stem from linguistic mistakes and simple misunderstandings.
Don't ever take words at face value.
When you step into the zone of love, language as we know it becomes obsolete.
That which cannot be put into words can only be grasped through silence.

Rule 7
Loneliness and solitude are two different things.
When you are lonely, it is easy to delude yourself into believing that you are on the right path.
Solitude is better for us, as it means being alone without feeling lonely.
But eventually it is best to find a person, the person who will be your mirror.
Remember, only in another person's heart can you truly see yourself and the presence of God within you.

Rule 8
Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem,
do not enter the neighborhood of despair.
Even when all doors remain closed, God will open a new path only for you.
Be thankful! It is easy to be thankful when all is well.
A Sufi is thankful not only for what he has been given but also for all that he has been denied.

Rule 9
Patience does not mean to passively endure.
It means to be farsighted enough to trust the end result of a process.
What does patience mean?
It means to look at the thorn and see the rose, to look at the night and see the dawn.
Impatience means to be so shortsighted as to not be able to see the outcome.
The lovers of God never run out of patience,
for they know that time is needed for the crescent moon to become full.

Rule 10
East, west, south, or north makes little difference.
No matter what your destination, just be sure to make every journey a journey within.
If you travel within, you'll travel the whole wide world and beyond.

Rule 11
The midwife knows that when there is no pain,
the way for the baby cannot be opened and the mother cannot give birth.
Likewise for a new Self to be born, hardship is necessary.
Just as clay needs to go through intense heat to become strong,
Love can only be perfected in pain.

Rule 12
The quest for Love changes us.
There is no seeker among those who search for Love who has not matured on the way.
The moment you start looking for love, you start to change within and without.

Rule 13
There are more fake gurus and false teachers in this world than the number of stars in the visible universe.
Don't confuse power-driven, self-centered people with true mentors.
A genuine spiritual master will not direct your attention to himself or herself
and will not expect absolute obedience or utter admiration from you,
but instead will help you to appreciate and admire your inner self.
True mentors are as transparent as glass.
They let the light of God pass through them.

Rule 14
Try not to resist the changes that come your way.
Instead let life live through you.
And do not worry that your life is turning upside down.
How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?

Rule 15
God is busy with the completion of your work, both outwardly and inwardly.
He is fully occupied with you.
Every human being is a work in progress that is slowly but inexorably moving toward perfection.
We are each an unfinished work of art both waiting and striving to be completed.
God deals with each of us separately because humanity is a fine art of skilled penmanship
where every single dot is equally important for the entire picture.

Rule 16
It's easy to love a perfect God, unblemished and infallible that He is.
What is far more difficult is to love fellow human beings with all their imperfections and defects.
Remember, one can only know what one is capable of loving.
Unless we learn to love God's creation, we can neither truly love nor truly know God.

Rule 17
Real filth is the one inside.
The rest simply washes off.
There is only one type of dirt that cannot be cleansed with pure waters,
and that is the stain of hatred and bigotry contaminating the perfect soul.
You can purify your body through abstinence and fasting,
but only love will purify your heart.

Rule 18
The whole universe is contained within a single human being - you.
Everything that you see around, including the things you might not be fond of
and even the people you despise or abhor, is present within you in varying degreed.
Therefore, do not look for Sheitan outside yourself either.
The devil is not an extraordinary force that attacks from without.
It is an ordinary voice within.
If you get to know yourself fully,
facing with honesty and hardness both your dark and bright sides,
you will arrive at a supreme form of consciousness.
When a person knows himself or herself, he or she knows God.

Rule 19
If you want to change the way others treat you,
you should first change the way you treat yourself.
Unless you learn to love yourself, fully and sincerely,
there is no way you can be loved.
Once you achieve that stage, however, be thankful for every thorn that others might throw at you.
It is a sign that you soon will be showered with roses.

Rule 20
Fret not where the road will take you.
Instead concentrate on the first step.
That's the hardest part and that's what you are responsible for.
Once you take that step, let everything do what it naturally does and the rest will follow.
Do not go with the flow.
Be the flow.

Rule 21
We are all created in His image, and yet we were each created different and unique.
No two people are alike.
No two hearts beat to the same rhythm.
If God had wanted everyone to be the same, He would have made it so.
Therefore, disrespecting differences and imposing your thoughts on others
is tantamount to disrespecting God's holy scheme.

Rule 22
When a true lover of God goes into a tavern,
the tavern becomes his chamber of prayer,
but when a wine bibber goes into the same chamber, it becomes his tavern.
In everything we do, it is our hearts that make the difference, not our outer appearances.
Sufis do not judge other people on how they look or who they are.
When a Sufi stares at someone, he keeps both eyes closed
and instead opens a third eye - the eye that sees the inner realm.

Rule 23
Life is a temporary loan, and this world is nothing but a sketchy imitation of Reality.
Only children would mistake a toy for the real thing.
And yet human beings either become infatuated with the toy or disrespectfully break it and throw it aside.
In this life stay away from all kinds of extremities,
for they will destroy your inner balance.
Sufis do not go to extremes.
A Sufi always remains mild and moderate.

Rule 24
The human being has a unique place among God's creation.
"I breathed into him of My Spirit," God says.
Each and every one of us without exception is designed to be God's delegate on earth.
Ask yourself, just how often do you behave like a delegate, if you ever do so?
Remember, it falls upon each of us to discover the divine spirit inside and live by it.

Rule 25
Hell is in the here and now. So is heaven.
Quit worrying about hell or dreaming about heaven, as they are both present inside this very moment.
Every time we fall in love, we ascend to heaven.
Every time we hate, envy, or fight someone, we tumble straight into the fires of hell

Rule 26
The universe is one being.
Everything and everyone is interconnected through an invisible web of stories.
Whether we are aware of it or not, we are all in silent conversation.
Do no harm. Practice compassion.
And do not gossip behind anyone's back - not even a seemingly innocent remark!
The words that comes out of your mouth do not vanish but are perpetually stored in infinite space,
and they will come back to us in due time.
One man's pain will hurt us all.
One man's joy will make everyone smile.

Rule 27
This world is like a snowy mountain that echoes your voice.
Whatever you speak, good or evil, will somehow come back to you.
Therefore, if there is someone who harbors ill thoughts about you,
saying similarly bad things about him will only make matters worse.
You will be locked in a vicious circle of malevolent energy.
Instead for forty days and nights say and think nice things about that person.
Everything will be different at the end of forty days, because you will be different inside.

Rule 28
The past is an interpretation. The future is an illusion.
The world does not move through time as if it were a straight line,
proceeding from the past to the future.
Instead time moves through and within us, in endless spirals.
Eternity does not mean infinite time, but simply timelessness.
If you want to experience eternal illumination, put the past
and the future out of your mind and remain within the present moment.

Rule 29
Destiny doesn't mean that your life has been strictly predetermined.
Therefore, to leave everything to fate and to not actively contribute
to the music of the universe is a sign of sheer ignorance.
The music of the universe is all-pervading and it is composed on forty different levels.
Your destiny is the level where you will play your tune.
You might not change your instrument but how well to play is entirely in your hands.

Rule 30
The true Sufi is such that even when he is unjustly accused,
attacked, and condemned from all sides,
he patiently endures, uttering not a single bad word about any of his critics.
A Sufi never apportions blame.
How can there be opponents or rivals or even "others"
when there is no "self" in the first place.
How can there be anyone to blame when there is only One?

Rule 31
If you want to strengthen your faith, you will need to soften inside.
For your faith to be rock solid, your heart needs to be as soft as a feather.
Through an illness, accident, loss or fright, one way or another,
we all are faced with incidents that teach us how to become less selfish and judgmental,
to become milder, while some others end up becoming even harsher than before.
The only way to get closer to Truth is to expand your heart
so that it will encompass all humanity and still have room for more Love.

Rule 32
Nothing should stand between you and God. Not imams, priest, rabbis.
Or any other custodians of moral or religious leadership.
Not spiritual masters, not even your faith.
Believe in your values and your rules, but never lord them over others.
If you keep breaking other people's hearts, whatever religious duty you perform is no good.
Stay away from all sorts of idolatry, for they will blur your vision.
Let God and only God be your guide.
Learn the Truth, my friend, but be careful not to make a fetish out of your truths.

Rule 33
While everyone in this world strives to get somewhere and become someone,
only to leave it all behind after death, you aim for the supreme stage of nothingness.
Live this life as light and empty as the number zero.
We are no different from a pot.
It is not the decorations outside but the emptiness inside that holds us straight.
Just like that, it is not what we aspire to achieve but the consciousness of nothingness that keeps us going.

Rule 34
Submission does not mean being weak or passive.
It leads to neither fatalism nor capitulation. Just the opposite.
True power resides in submission - to a power that comes from within.
Those who submit to the divine essence of life will live in unperturbed tranquility and peace
even when the whole wide world goes through turbulence after turbulence.

Rule 35
In this world, it is not similarities or regularities that take us a step forward, but blunt opposites.
And all the opposites in the universe are present within each and very one of us.
Therefore the believer needs to meet the unbeliever residing within.
And the nonbeliever should get to know the silent faithful in him.
Until the day one reaches the stage of Insan-I Kamil, the perfect human being,
faith is a gradual process and one that necessitates its seeming opposite: disbelief.

Rule 36
The world is erected upon the principle or reciprocity.
Neither a drop of kindness nor a speck of evil will remain unreciprocated.
Fear not the plots, deceptions, or tricks of other people.
If someone is setting up a trap, remember, so is God.
He is the biggest plotter.
Not even a leaf stirs outside God's knowledge.
Simply and fully believe in that.
Whatever God does, He does beautifully.

Rule 37
God is a meticulous clockmaker.
So precise is His order that everything on earth happens in its own time.
Neither a minute late nor a minute early.
And for everyone without exception, the clock works accurately.
For each there is a time to love and a time to die.

Rule 38
It is never too late to ask yourself, "Am I ready to change the life I am living?
Am I ready to change within?"
Even if a single day in your life is the same as the day before, it surely is a pity.
At every moment and with each new breath, one should be renewed and renewed again.

Rule 39
While the parts change, the whole remains the same.
For every thief who departs this world, a new one is born.
And every decent person who passes away is replaced by a new one.
In this way not only does nothing remain the same but also nothing really changes.

Rule 40
A life without love is of no account.
Don't ask yourself what kind of love you should seek,
spiritual or material, divine or mundane, Eastern or Western
Divisions only lead to more divisions.
Love has no labels, no definitions.
It is what it is, pure and simple.
Love is the water of life. And a lover is a soul of fire.
The universe turns differently when fire loves water.